What I choose to do has never made sense to those I work with in the world. Why on earth would you choose to give up a whole day's pay (or right now, half my annual income) to go to church? It doesn't make sense to them.
I'm very grateful to be in the position to where I honestly just don't even think about it. From a young age, I was very fortunate to have parents that led me to always putting God and worship times first. Because of this, as an adult I've never had a problem making the decision to choose to go to worship over other activities—even now when there's money involved. I honestly just don't even think about it anymore.
And through it all, I've always found God's promise to be true: "Seek the church first and I'll make sure that everything you need will be provided to you." For some, who perhaps haven't had the same upbringing as I, I'm sure this is an extremely difficult leap of faith. I understand that. While it's not a choice for me there have been many prayers this year, "Lord, please bless my efforts. You know I won't compromise my service to you—so please bless my work despite my neglect of my business in favor of Your service. Help me to have just enough.” It's a prayer that focuses me on Him as I conduct my business—but a prayer that I also KNOW He will answer. Hasn’t He promised that? Not prosperity, but PROVISION. That’s what Matthew 6 is all about. Lay aside the worry of trying to have MORE of the s t u f f of this world and instead focus on having MORE of God and His church—and you’ll never have to worry about the worldly things. You will have food and clothing. Maybe not nice food. Maybe not nice clothing. But enough. Enough not to worry.
And so I beg you to consider your heart as you make the decision whether to work, play, or worship. I know, there are jobs that HAVE to continue—life and death kind of jobs—but if you’re not involved in life-saving, then you have to ask yourself, what are you really seeking? What do you really have your trust in?
Just try Him. Taste and see how good He is. You may end up having less stuff, but the peace and provision He gives when we lay our everything at His feet is worth every sacrifice.
I'm probably not going to be popular for saying this, but... it needs to be said. You all don't want to know what this Aussie girl thinks about gun control—but in light of the shootings, the one thing I can tell you with all certainty is that it really does NOT matter what I think. Honestly.
Someone was overcome by evil.
People died.
People are grieving. ...and now we're making this about our political opinions? For shame.
I mean... have you ever taken a moment to think about what that looks like to the world when we as Christians use tragedies to talk about gun control?
Can you imagine how you would feel if your loved one dying spurred a worldwide cry about the murder weapon?
There are lives and precious souls effected by this tragedy—what you think about your rights to a gun does NOT matter in this instance.
Surely you can take a moment to reflect and think of something God would rather have you say and do in the light of tragedy? Something actually helpful to those suffering and wondering whether there is even a God?
How about using the situation to draw people to the light—to show them hope, love, light, and grace?
How about using it to praise God, rather than defend guns?
Surely we can at least agree on that.
Or not. It's your choice.
But I'm telling you, whatever you choose—guns or no guns—more of Him is the only thing that's going to make this world better.
Preach Christ in times of tragedy.
Preach Christ, not guns. (And no, they're not synonymous). #herlifehisway #prayfordayton #dayton #christculture #christoverculture
So often we’re tempted to think that it’s the big things that shape us—life-changing decisions, public shows of faith, long hours of study, and mission trips—but while these are wonderful, too often we miss the simple things in our pursuit of the spectacular. While we pursue purity and perfection, let us not forget to embrace the small acts of devotion—like choosing a moment of meditation over a scroll through Instagram, engaging in prayer rather than listening to the radio, or opening the Bible app instead of candy crush. Too often I opt for the mindless and easy option—but I’m resolving here and now to do better—because it’s these small things that, while they may not “wow” anyone or seen incredibly meaningful, will shape our souls. It’s these seemingly trivial choices that will show where or heart really lies—and that will prepare us for when opportunities to do those big, challenging acts of faith come our way.
Choose Him in the small things, every day—because it’s the small, consistent ways you choose to spend your time daily that show who and whose you really are.
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If my husband left me, would I still love him? Absolutely. If he stopped talking to me every day, would I still love him? You betcha. If he cheated on me, would I be unwilling to forgive him if he truly repented? Certainly not. But does that make it okay? Does that mean that he has the right to do those things? NO!! I would still be upset and angry and sad. I would cry and yell and feel so alone. And I would have every reason to
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It's an easy concept when we think of a marriage that way, but when we have an attitude of "I don't have to go to church for God to love me," "I don't need to pray or study for God to care about me," or, “I don't need to obey His Word for God to be good for me," we are doing exactly that. We are the spouse who takes advantage of their partner because they know that they'll just be forgiven and that their partner will still love them anyway. It's an abusive, one way relationship in which one person is putting forth all the effort, and the other is flippantly taking advantage. .
Of course God will always love us and be good to us, but if we truly love him and want a relationship with Him, we will show that love back to Him. “We love because He first loved us” -1 John 4:19 Being in a relationship with God is a wonderful, beautiful thing. His love is perfect and endless, and all He asks in return is that we try our hardest to love Him back. .
What are some ways that you can grow closer to the Lord and His love? What are some ways you can strengthen your relationship with the Lord?
Have you ever stopped and thought about how perfectly Jesus modelled the way us women are called to be?
While we scream that acts of submission, sacrifice, and service are unfair, we often forget that Jesus Himself was submissive to the Father—and in the ultimate sense. He gave up His God-likeness to come down and be a servant (Philippians 2). Through healing, helping, feeding, washing, teaching, and ultimately giving His life, He was all at once servant, sacrifice, and Saviour.
And while we can be tempted to complain about how unfair it is that we must submit or serve or sacrifice, He never did. He cried, He pleaded, but always with the willingness to let God's will be done before His.
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It says in Hebrews that He l e a r n e d obedience. He was not obedient as God in Heaven. He had to humble Himself, and subject Himself to a human body in order to learn obedience and become our perfect sacrifice.
Let that sink in, and next time you feel like complaining about any sacrifices you may have to make for God or man, give thanks that there was one who gave up being God for man.
Incredible thing to think about, isn’t it?
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“And he said to them, "My soul is very sorrowful, even to death. Remain here and watch.” And going a little farther, he fell on the ground and prayed that, if it were possible, the hour might pass from him. And he said, "Abba, Father, all things are possible for you. Remove this cup from me. Yet not what I will, but what you will.” (Mark 14:34-36). “In the days of his flesh, Jesus offered up prayers and supplications, with loud cries and tears, to him who was able to save him from death, and he was heard because of his reverence. Although he was a son, he learned obedience through what he suffered. And being made perfect, he became the source of eternal salvation to all who obey him” (Hebrews 5:7-9). #herlifehisway --Chantelle Marie
Anxiety: let's talk about it
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I went to the emergency room the other day because of a panic attack. What I had always thought was just my low blood sugar causing my body to react in a panic, turned out to be an anxiety disorder. But I'm a Christian. And Christians aren't supposed to have anxiety, right?
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In Matthew 6:25 and following, Jesus tells us not to be anxious about what we're going to eat or whether or not we will be clothed, because He is the one in control, not us. This type of anxiousness is caused by our desire to control things, and a lack of faith that causes us to forget that God is in control. Having an anxiety disorder, however, is when your body doesn't make enough serotonin, which is the chemical that relives our bodies of stress. Even if we somehow convince our minds to stop continually bombarding us with intrusive thoughts, our bodies are still filled with high levels of stress, no matter how much faith we have.
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The point of this is to say that it's okay to get help. Not only is it okay to get medical help for your anxiety disorder (which is not a sin), but if your anxiety disorder Has caused you to forget that God is in control, or if you have forgotten that God is in control Without having a disorder, it's okay to get help about that too. In fact, that's even MORE important to get help for. Talking with someone who's an experienced Christian or a Christian counselor from your congregation is okay and encouraged and So important when it’s needed. Going to your doctor and getting on medication is also okay, and important when it’s needed.
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Just like we can’t always take care of our physical health by ourselves, we can’t always take care of our spiritual health without seeking outside help. We can never put our physical, and especially our spiritual, health to the side as something that we should “just be able to get over on our own.” Otherwise God wouldn’t have allowed us to use His church as a tool to uplift, help, and encourage one another.
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“Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working.” -James 5:16
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Do we get our comfort, joy, confidence, and hope from Christ, or other things? I mean, really, truly and honestly—think on this for a moment with me: • Have you ever had your entire day ruined by the number on the scale or the fact you ate cake?
• Do you find yourself emotionally upset if you can’t make it to the gym or angry if you go over your calorie count?
• Have you ever found yourself wishing you had the willpower of an anorexic or happy you got sick because you lost 5 lbs?
• Do you find yourself jealous of other women who look different to you—trying to bring them down or coveting what they have? • Have you ever found yourself reaching for food every time you feel emotionally upset?
• Is dieting or exercise or bingeing the first thing you think of when you feel unhappy with your situation?
No matter what it is we s a y we love,—no matter where it is we s a y we get our comfort and joy—if our emotions are so interweaved with the things of this earth, we've gotten our priorities our of whack. No matter how healthy or beneficial what we are focused on is—it has become completely unhealthy if it becomes more of a source of happiness and confidence than our walk with Christ.
Here's the thing: whether you’re finding your comfort in a pint of ice cream, your confidence in your pursuits of healthy living, your hope in the next 30 day challenge that promises to “change your body and your life”, or your joy in numbers dropping on the scale—there’s one common problem: You’re seeking the same things that the world is seeking. You’re seeking your hope, confidence, and comfort where they can never truly be found—the only place we can find hope, confidence, comfort, and joy is in Christ.
We have to be aware of this, because God himself said it was in our nature to focus on outward things first (1 Samuel 16:7). It’s just a fact.
As long as earthly, physical things are your focus, you will never have enough, you will never be enough, you will never be satisfied.
Yes, take care of what God has given you—but don’t let the care of your body overtake you. Don’t let it bring you more joy than a relentless pursuit of Christ.
Keep climbing. 🏔 📖: "Not that I have already obtained this or am already perfect, but I press on to make it my own, because Christ Jesus has made me his own. Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own. But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. Let those of us who are mature think this way, and if in anything you think otherwise, God will reveal that also to you" (Philippians 3:12-15). #herlifehisway
Broken. Sinful. Shameful. Worthless. These are the words I so often hear Christians describe themselves with.
But listen up - because I’m going to tell you something: in Christ, these words do not define you. You are NOT a sinner if you are in Christ. You are righteous, just as God is.
Does it feel uncomfortable to say or hear this? It shouldn't be.
We are a people who h a v e sinned and walk with Christ now, sinless. He has taken all our sin away. Now, this is not to say that we have no past sin or no longer make mistakes, but that sin no longer defines us and our past sins are no longer on our record (1 John 2:1). Unfortunately, most of us have been taught that we are broken and vile sinners, saved only by "the skin of our teeth," but God clearly tells us we are His sons and daughters, we are righteous, we are worthy, and we are no longer defined by sin or caught in it's clutches, we have a way of escape and salvation (1 John 1:7-10). He saves us to the UTTERMOST (Hebrews 7:25). Not a little bit - completely. We are no longer broken and vile but washed in the blood of the Lamb, pure and white. Brokenness is for those outside of Christ. We come to Him broken, we walk with Him complete.
In Christ you are free. This is what grace teaches us (Titus 2:11-14). Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
Let's start believing we are and serve Him out of thankfulness for what this means, because it has NOTHING to do with us and EVERYTHING to do with what Christ has done for us. • "My little children, I am writing these things to you so that you may not sin. But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous" (1 John 2:1). "Little children, let no one deceive you. Whoever practices righteousness is righteous, as he is righteous" (1 John 3:7). "Wherefore he is able also to save them to the uttermost that come unto God by him, seeing he ever liveth to make intercession for them" (Hebrews 7:25). "For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation for all people, training us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in the present age" (Titus 2:11-12)
We 👏 must 👏 change 👏 ourselves.
Too often we shape our view of God and His will to suit what WE want—but despite our wishes, God never changes. We must change ourselves and our point of view to until we are fully walking in His glorious light.
We cannot change His image to look how we wish it—it is us who must change our image to look more like His. 📖: "Be perfect, even as your Father in heaven is perfect” (Matthew 5:38). “Put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness” (Ephesians 4:22-24)
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What does it mean to become like Jesus? It's something that we must think more about. The fact that He showed Himself to us and calls us to be like Him is an absolute honour - so what should it change about us in light of that?
As we strive to be more like Him, we need to consider who He is. One of the things that Jesus is called by the apostle John on more than one occasion was 'the Word' (1 John 1; John 1:1). He was called this because He was and is the ultimate communication of God to man. In Him we see God's love, light, and power personified: He was God in human form. Through Him we can see what God looks like and know how He wants us to live.
And in realizing who He is and what He came for, we should realize that we, too, are called to be living communications of God's message to the world. He wants us to be like He was - reflections of God's light on this earth, beacons to the world.
What a great privilege - and what an awesome responsibility.
So, what should change about us then?
What about our lives needs to change, to become more like Jesus—living representations of God’s Word on earth?
Everything. Absolutely everything. // 1 John 1:1-4; John 1:1 \\ "For I have given you an example, that ye should do as I have done" (John 13:15). #herlifehisway
Sometimes things don't go as planned. And that's okay.
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I'm getting married this weekend and I am So very excited! But nothing seems to be going my way. I try very hard not to be demanding or insistent on my own way, but this is My wedding, right? This is My day. As my decisions sometimes feel overrided and disregarded, as the weather is looking to be nasty during my outdoor wedding, as things aren't looking great I keep thinking, "Why are things going so poorly? This is My wedding, why aren't things going My way?"
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But then I take a step back and I remember that this isn't My wedding. This is God's wedding. As Will and I devote our marriage to Him, this becomes His union. It's not My wedding, it's God's wedding. He allowed us to get married, He allowed me to find someone who helps me to grow and flourish as a person. It doesn't matter if things go My way, as long as they're going His way.
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Whether it's your wedding, your graduation, your relationship, or even your health, our way isn't always the best way, but God's always is. And once we learn to rely on Him rather on ourselves, our faith can only grow and strengthen.
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It’s so, so much easier to say, “I have struggled” than “I am struggling.” “I have struggled” tells people that I am victorious, that struggle is in the past and that it no longer has a hold of me. “I am struggling”, on the other hand, requires a whole another layer of vulnerability. It involves letting you know I feel weak and weary. It means I need to ask of you something—be it prayers, help, or support. Opening up about current struggles is hard, because it means I have to open myself up to the possibility of judgement and misunderstanding.
It is so hard to say, “I am struggling”—but there’s just as much power in it as saying, “I have struggled”. Because, if we are to bear one another’s burdens, one of us is going to have to be vulnerable. One of us is going to have to, at some point of time, swallow our pride and admit a CURRENT struggle—and allow the other to help carry it.
And here’s the thing: if we never work up the courage to say, “I am struggling”, we may never, ever be able to have the privilege of saying, “I have struggled”—we may simply carry on struggling in silence.
Be brave and courageous—surrender your pride and allow others to follow Christ’s command to bear your burdens.
Shame and sin thrive in silence—and that’s where Satan tries to get them to stay.
It’s in opening up to each other, seeking help, and letting others know they aren’t alone that we are set free. Sin and shame cannot survive where there is an active community of confession, love, and support.
Living in this broken world, we cannot be surprised when we struggle—and we can’t be surprised when those around us struggle. We have to be ready for the church to struggle with discouragement, mental illnesses, temptations, sin—and we have to be ready to both confess and support in our turn. Because if we don’t confess or bear the burdens of our brothers and sisters—we are NOT fulfilling the Law of Christ. “Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ” (Galatians 6:2). Now isn’t that a sobering thought?
What burdens are you helping to carry—and what burdens are you letting others help you carry—right now? —Chantelle
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It doesn't matter how many times you call a girl beautiful—if she doesn't believe she is valuable and valued, she will never believe that any kind of beauty she holds will be enough. Our appearances change almost every day - and a day will come when we are no longer anyone's ideal of outer beauty. The only thing that will truly make us see and appreciate our own unique beauty as we change and age is realising our value. Not what we look like, but who we can be and what we can do. •
We need to spend less time telling girls they're beautiful and more time showing them how they can contribute to their families, to society, to the church, to the community they live in. Tell a girl she's beautiful and she may believe it for a day—show her how she fits in God’s great plan and you will teach her to create a life full of true beauty. Empower her to rise above beauty standards and onward to pursue her true value in Christ. •
Let’s change the conversation from, “You’re beautiful as you are because God made you” to “Let me show you how God can turn you into something truly beautiful and v a l u a b l e—let me show you how you can become just like Him.” Girls feel the need to obsess on their looks because they feel like the worlds standard of beauty is worth something. Don’t give the worlds message any power. In God, our beauty is not in who we are, but in Who we are striving with all our might to be. Our beauty is in our spirit. In our value to the kingdom.
And if we aren’t t realizing and pursuing our true value—if we aren’t seeking God and a life full of good works—we will never, ever feel beautiful or enough. Ever. “For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto g o o d w o r k s which God has before ordained that we should walk in them” (Ephesians 2:10).
He made the lame walk. Does this mean anything to us? I believe it does. I believe that Jesus' miracles are more than just fun stories to tell our children - theese wereput in our Bibles to inspire us with confidence. These were put there to change our lives and place courage in our hearts. As we walk, we need to realise that we still serve this God—the God that made the lame leap. If He could do that, how much more can He do for us, as we struggle on our spiritual walk? What obstacles can stand in the way of such a God? How can anything stand in our way, if we walk with such a God?
Certainly no sin or struggle can stand in our way. We can expect to walk in victory as we walk with the Lord - because just as He made the lame to walk, He will cause us to leap forward in victory as we overcome this world. Just like He healed them completely - He will fully mend all our brokenness, so that we can walk with Him whole. Believe in His healing power - and realise that He has enough power for your every sin, every struggle, every temptation for the rest of your journey with Him.
Walk with Him in confidence. "For which is easier, to say, ‘Your sins are forgiven,’ or to say, ‘Rise and walk’? But that you may know that the Son of Man has authority on earth to forgive sins”—he then said to the paralytic—“Rise, pick up your bed and go home.” And he rose and went home" (Matthew 9:5-7). --Chantelle
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I'm in a period of transition
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We all have been there. Transitioning between highschool and college, between college and career, between moves, relationships, and everything in-between. I personally have moved 10 times, and I'm about to move an 11th. And while this is the shortest distance I will have ever moved (about 10 minutes), it is the biggest and most significant move I will ever make.
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Right now, I am about 6 weeks away from my wedding, I graduated preaching school just two and a half months ago, I've been looking for a job for a little while now with no luck, I'll be starting college in the fall, and I'm about to go from living with my parents to being a full fledged adult with a spouse, a home to care for, bills to pay, and other responsibilities that I've never had, all at once.
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The transition into marriage is exciting, but still scary! There's no one telling me what to do. The journey of finding a job that works for me, especially when I start school, is really difficult and challenging. All of these things in my life that are transitioning all at once are big and scary. But why am I not worried?
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I'm currently studying the book of Job, and I was reading chapter 38 when it struck me. God is constantly asking Job in this chapter, "Where were you when I created everything?" "Where were you when I laid the foundations of the earth?" I can't help but to imagine that I'm Job in this situation. Not that I am suffering, but because I need to hear this too. We all do! Where was I when God created all things? I didn't even exist yet, and yet God still knew me. God still created all things. He still made a wonderful creation without me. So who is in charge, then, of my world? Of my life?
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Yes. Transitions are scary and hard. But when I remember Who created the heavens and the earth, when I remember Who laid down the foundations for my life, for this world, and for salvation, why would I Not rely on Him? So yes. Transitioning is hard. But it's so much easier when I keep in mind that God is truly the one in charge of my life, and I have absolutely nothing to worry about. -JM
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This week has been hard. Life as a minister’s wife has often been challenging, but this week especially so. We got called out to a suicide - and it’s honestly been just so hard to process. •
People say they don't understand why people do these things. I can understand why - I've even felt like that was the best option before, on multiple occasions. But the important thing for you to understand is that you don't need to understand why people do these things in order to be helpful - you just need to care enough to be there, no matter how uncomfortable or scared you feel. •
What you do need to remember during tragedy (and always) is that:
1) There are people in your life who are struggling in ways you don't know. That person who was cross or curt? The one who always seems to have everything going their way? That girl who doesn't seem to want to talk to you? They may just be hurting. Always be kind.
2) You don't need to know what to say. When tragedy strikes, often people are scared and shun the grieving because they don't know what to say. Honestly, people want you to say a lot less than you think they do. Just love and be there and listen.
3) There are a lot of different reasons that people feel like suicide is an option and there are so many things that can go wrong with a person's mind. It's not your job to figure out what went wrong or what the state of their soul is so you can tell those left behind - they're gone. You can't change what happened - but you can know and trust they are in the hands of a loving, gracious, and just God who is a Righteous Judge. Their soul is out of our hands - but they are in God's hands and we can be confident that He will always do what is right. •
Let God give you the strength, courage, and compassion enough to learn to weep with those who weep + bear their heavy burdens.
And the other truth you need to hold firmly in your heart is this: there is always love, support, and help to be found. Never be afraid to reach out and find it. There are people want you to stay here more than you can ever know.
#herlifehisway #justbethere
