Your Husband Is Not Lying, You Are (and It’s Ruining Intimacy for You Both)

[This article contains a rather frank conversation about sexuality. Please read this only if you are mature enough to handle such things. If such topics offend you, please refrain from reading. Thank you!] *     *     *    *    * It was a low point – a point I’m sure most … More Your Husband Is Not Lying, You Are (and It’s Ruining Intimacy for You Both)

What to Do When Your Husband Won’t Put His Clothes in the Basket 

So, apparently this is a hot topic. I know this because am a member of an expat wives group on Facebook. While sometimes I do find being a member of this page useful to my living overseas, I remain a member mostly because I find the free-flow discussion of #firstworldproblems (that I am too lower-class to … More What to Do When Your Husband Won’t Put His Clothes in the Basket 

Love Wins, Every Time

Upon reading an article about one Singaporean pastor’s reaction and opposition to the LGBT Pink Dot festival held in Singapore (whose behaviour I must admit, sounded pretty irrational), one of my coworkers made a remark about how unloving some people were, then turned to me and said, “What would Jesus do?! He would just love everyone … More Love Wins, Every Time

Awakening Love: What to Do When You Just Don’t Want It

[This article contains a frank conversation about intimacy in marriage. Please read this only if you are mature enough to handle such things – and if such things are likely to offend you, please refrain from reading. Thank you!] “Satan tries his best to make people have as much sex as possible before marriage, and … More Awakening Love: What to Do When You Just Don’t Want It

[Video] Self Control and Maturity {1 Corinthians 7}

How do some ladies become sweet, and helpful while others end up bitter and inactive? How can we grow in self-control, and how does self-control help us grow to maturity? In this video, I talk to the ladies at Jurong church of Christ, Singapore about the practical applications of the truths and principles contained in 1 … More [Video] Self Control and Maturity {1 Corinthians 7}

The Selfless Series—#3: Giving Out {It’s Not My Money}

As I mentioned in the last article, we simply cannot get past the fact that Christians were meant to be identified by the way they cared for others. Jesus Himself stressed the importance of this fact (John 13:35). Not only that, but it is also absolutely essential that we develop a heart of selflessness when it comes … More The Selfless Series—#3: Giving Out {It’s Not My Money}